Monday, April 20, 2009

Dealing with Crushes at Workplace

Have a crush on someone at work? Learn to deal with it before you make a mess of things.

Crushes at work are very likely because of the proximity to the opposite sex. You may find yourself wasting your time thinking or fantasizing about the other. Momentary lapses in concentration and lack of effectiveness at work could plague you. The feeling is not bad. You just need to understand your feelings. Are your current relationships inadequate? Do you feel you don’t have anyone to share things about your life? Are you not getting enough attention? Is there a lack of reciprocation and love from people around you? It’s good to stay away from this at work. Think about the other things regarding the person and perhaps you’ll realize that it’s not really worth pursuing this seriously.