Thursday, June 21, 2007

What women find attractive in men?

Men have always been intrigued trying to decipher the workings of a female mind. The question of what women find attractive in men is quite interesting to decode.

The first thing that strikes one is that good looks feature high. A handsome man with looks that can make woman swoon will no doubt have many women trying to get his attention. A well-built and toned body is physically very attractive, so a spot at the gym could improve your prospects. Tall men have always fascinated women and the typical Mills & Boon hero has always been tall and handsome, if you are tall you’re lucky.

Whether you like it or not, money is a big draw for women. It represents security and the promise of a luxurious life. The idea of exotic holidays, expensive jewelry and clothes that a rich man can lavish on them excites most women.

If you are not rich or physically attractive don’t get disheartened. Romantic men can sweep the most hard-hearted damsel over. You don’t need to have loads of money to be romantic, write her a cute love poem, dedicate a song to her on her favorite radio channel or take her out to a romantic movie finishing with a dinner where you surprise her with a special cake. There are numerous ways to get romantic, this is one thing that can be developed.

A good sense of humor is one of the biggest assets a man can possess, it draws women in droves. A man who has a personality that exudes confidence can make a woman feel secure and this is very attractive.

Tender and caring men figure high on the female wish list. Caring and thoughtful gestures like remembering their favorite dish and ordering it or taking care of her when she is sick will win her over. Offer to babysit a friend’s baby for a while, women love men who like kids.

Women hate being taken for granted. If you want to woo a woman, take the effort to appreciate the care they have taken to dress or cook a meal and compliment them. So be generous with compliments, but don’t go overboard or you’ll look insincere.

Men who appear trustworthy and stable will always be in demand. Faithfulness is important to every woman and she will look for those signs in a man. Also it’s important that a man has a steady job or business.

So if you are a man, use these tips to enhance yourself and then go ahead and find the woman of your dreams.

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1 comment:

  1. Everything you mentioned was superficial--I'm a woman and I am looking for a lot more than the things you laid out. You don't speak for all of us.