March 07, 2008

5 Ways to Bargain and Win.

From Delhi’s Paalika Bazaar to Linking Road in Mumbai, bargaining is what matters.

If you follow the rules of the art, not only will you save money, you will enjoy little games with the shopkeepers.

First, it is important to always remember that sellers are pretty smart folks, and have honed their art to perfection. They can be as charming as Cleopatra if needed, and are perhaps worthy enough of an entry in Wikipedia.

Games Sellers Play
Let me narrate a story about their psychological games.

A lady walks into a sari store. After enquiring about her budget (range, as they call it), the shopkeeper proceeds to show her a few pieces. She can't seem to decide on buying.

He spots the indecision, and quickly capitalizes on it.

Suddenly, in a PC Sorcar-like act, he pulls out a few saris at a higher price than the range quoted.

As she goes through them, the choice is pretty clear. Sensing the opportunity to seal the deal, the salesman says, "Madam, take the lesser priced range, it suits your budget.

The lady, feeling insulted, "Pack the blue coloured higher priced sari."

"OK Madam," says he, with a wry smile, knowing he's won the game.

We are all bargaining most of the time. Sometimes over which program to watch on TV. At other times over the salary your next company should pay. Many a time, we don't realise that we are bargaining.

But, when we do and learn to communicate, negotiate and close deals better, we become good at the game. Here are a few tips that will stand you in good stead.

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February 04, 2008

Best Valentine Dinner to Celebrate

The piece de resistance of Valentine’s Day is the dinner. Take care to plan it out well and it will be one of the most beautiful days in your life. A day that will leave behind lovely memories that you will always cherish.

The classic Valentine dinner is a romantic candle-lit one in a quiet restaurant. Carry a bouquet of red roses and a gift for your sweetheart if you are a man and a gift if you are a woman. Order a meal with wine or champagne that you can enjoy as you have a long, lingering romantic conversation. Finish off by surprising your date with a beautiful heart-shaped cake or dessert with a special message on it.

If you want to set up a customized Valentine dinner at home, here are a few ideas. First create the mood in the room by having colorful gas-filled balloons in romantic colors like pink, white or red. If you want to get more elaborate paste a few hearts on the wall or string up some heart streamers across the room.

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January 29, 2008

Learn to Kick Your Bad Habits

Habits acquired over the years can be unhealthy, sheer waste of time, utterly boring or unrewarding. They can reduce efficiency. Lower our life span. Make people love us less. Or push us to the brink of risking our lives.

But, they could also be good, healthy and positive. They could improve our efficiency. Help organize our lives better. Inculcate self-discipline.

A lot depends on whether the habit is good or bad. Something that's done regularly over a long period of time turns into a habit. And when that happens it's no longer in the realm of conscious acts. Habits exist independently in our subconscious. Which makes it all the more important for you to identify and work on the bad habits, or they could kill your time, reduce efficiently and stunt your personality.

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September 16, 2007

Why Positive Thinking is key to Success at Work

Think Positive, Do Positive.

Yes, if you can think that a challenge at work or home can be done, you are most likely to achieve the same. At the same time, if one has doubts it can be achieved, then success is unlikely. Because when the mind sets about the task in a positive framework, then it’s easy to cross any hurdle that we may face.

All successful folks began with positive thoughts and dreams. Bill Gates, Pete Sampras, Muhammad Ali, Steve Jobs, etc. each one of them had a goal, believed they could get there, put in efforts and never lost hope at any point in time.

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September 02, 2007

Tips to Enhance Relationships at Workplace

Relationships are key to a healthy atmosphere at work. But, unfortunately not many know how to work up healthy relationships with colleagues and bosses.

Communicate with Colleagues

Whether you like it or not, you have to communicate to co-workers. It doesn’t mean you have to be nice at all times to people you don’t like. It only means one must recognize co-workers with a hello or smile. Or else you may face criticism or gossip during the breaks. Starting with a positive attitude to be good to people around will make your life at work peaceful. This will make life at office happy and you’ll feel great coming over every morning.

Don’t say Negative Things

Refrain from talking ill of colleagues. This will save you a lot of trouble. I mean even if you don’t like the turn of someone’s nose, keep it to yourself. Or share it with someone you trust. Never say something negative in a group. It reflects badly on your personality. It’s tough to be like this but thing of the tremendous benefits. There’s always positive energy around you at work. Bosses can easily get a feel of whether co-workers are looking forward to your leadership. This will become critical when you are in line for a bigger responsibility.

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August 13, 2007

Why Is First Love Unforgettable?

First love is always unforgettable because of many happy reasons. The thrill of the first flush of romance feels like fresh dewdrops falling on an untouched leaf. It makes hearts beat faster, the birds sing sweeter and the world feel happier!

First love comes unbidden and hits you like a ton of bricks. This happy surprise is the most enjoyable thing about it. Before you realize it, the object of your affection become the most important thing in your life. You adore, praise and wax eloquent over your beloved, you also find moments when you turn an impromptu poet or break into a jig!

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March 26, 2007

Inspirational Interview with God...!!!

1> What do you think are man's silly mistakes?
God: He complicates everything simple.

2> Are women made to be difficult to understand?
God: Ha ha ha! I expected that to be your first question, he said. They are the simplest
of my creations, if you can understand them.

3> I'm surprised: Is it really that simple?
God: Make her feel secure. Earn her trust. Show commitment.
Remember her birthdays. Find time for her.

Ooooh! I realize that. Now.

4> How to be Happy in Life?
God: It's very easy. Expect nothing. Give all you have. Sport a Smile. Be like children.
Think Positive. Speak the truth, Always. Then you don't have to remember Anything.

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